It feels right. It feels intense. But is it love — or just infatuation? Here’s the truth most people ignore: Infatuation is loud. Love is steady. Infatuation rushes. Love grows. Infatuation wants to possess. Love wants to protect. Many people walk into relationships based on excitement, not understanding. They confuse chemistry for connection and attraction for purpose. Then when the emotions fade, so does their commitment. Before you say “I’m in love,” pause and ask — does this feeling build me